Mastodon for a comfy alternative to Twitter/X (feels less algorithmic, less ads), maybe Bluesky could serve a similar function.
Discord or WhatsApp for chatting with friends, and also the sort of discussions that you would have had on forums back in the day (vs the shorter form content of Mastodon/Bluesky). I have to say that I dislike people replacing forums for various technologies with Discord though, since I feel like something like Discourse/phpBB/whatever would be a better fit, more easily searchable etc., just felt like mentioning that.
Reddit or YouTube for seeing what's going on in the world, as well as any number of niche communities. For example, there's one about PC building, there's even one for Intel Arc GPUs, there's a lot of communities.
Slack, Skype (the meetings are better than Zoom) or maybe eventually Mattermost/Jitsi for chatting with people at work.
Now, it's not as much of a community as it is a news site, but LSM for some local reporting in my country: https://eng.lsm.lv/ which doesn't seem to have too much clickbait or the rude comments you get on most of the sites in my country, e.g. instead there's stuff like this https://eng.lsm.lv/article/economy/transport/11.01.2025-be-l... I'm sure that most countries have some down to earth news sites too.
Yes, there are communities hosted on them, but they're just services.
honestly, any platform these days is going to need a lot of filtering to cut out what you don't want to see
- Mel Gibson something Nazi
- Epic CEO says Trump Trump
- Tencent Chinese something military
- Justice Trump 34 felonies
- Republicans sound eager
Not sure if I want to "explore" "technology" further.
- Lemmy is FEDERATED ( google about it ) - If you want to see only posts from LOCAL ( not local to your instance ) posts select "LOCAL" default is "ALL" ( Federated from all )
In the past I was active on some online forums for moto enthusiasts, gaming and news but this time is gone sadly. Now I try to minimise time spent online.
Offline? I'm mostly fine with my current friends and family.
For surface-level information/news there is huge overlap in those places. Many duplicates. My 2025 resolution is to be less online.
I used to be on Instagram around 2010 till Facebook bought it and changed it from community to influencers-infested algorithms and ads - I have no time for that.
It still has some use as a personal news feed, but most of the comments are worthless.
There's a few math and science subs that are a bit like StackOverflow back when that was still useful.
Reluctantly on Reddit as the current activitypub alternatives don't feel quite right (emulating the chaos of Reddit).
Even more reluctantly on Linkedin, given that there is no real alternative for a decentralized open source "professional" network, which shows how early we are in this transition process.
also even the most benign discord servers are taking what used to be freely accessible (forums, hobby sites, fansites, etc) and walling the content into a proprietary system which demands your phone number, real IP, etc. it's slowly strangulating all other forms of internet community
Which a large variety of communities, sample projects, discussions that I found really useful, I now have 0 access too.
I am just at a loss of what to do with having lost access to useful information, communities, and peers. This is far more prevalent and problematic in gamedev related communities compared to other software communities.
Otherwise, I hang out on Bluesky.
There the modern stone age family
From the town of Bedrock
There a page right out of history
I would really appreciate a HN-like platform which
1) supports tags (more finegrained than lobste.rs which just dumps all of science under "science" or whatever)
2) supports math notation (latex or whatever)
But Brave has some dank ad-blocking fu. Hard to resist.
It's pretty disgusting behaviour by Brave.
I only use it because it's a highly effective ad blocking browser.
Give me a better ad blocker and I'll check it out.
- sometimes bsky
- discord servers of hobby and interest groups
- some facebook groups for niches have been quite good as well surprisingly
Yeah, for professional I also read lwn.net without discussing very frequently. For leisure/hobby I am in railway forums.