Why kids need to take more risks: science reveal benefits of wild, free play
nature.com
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Even adjusted for inflation, a visit to the emergency room for a broken arm or a few stitches is a way different financial proposition today than it was in say 1988 when I was a pre-teen running amok, alone, within a 5 mile radius of home.
I know I have a dollar amount floating in the back of my head when I'm watching my kiddo cavort around in the playground or jumping between big rocks the same way that I did at his age. Is there mortal danger? Not at all.. Buuuuut, is he going to split his lip if he face plants on a leap? How many grand is that going to be, even with insurance? It figures into the mental calculus, even if we can ostensibly afford it. Lots of families probably cannot afford it so well. My family definitely wouldn't have been able to if health care costs were the same in the 80s as they are now.
Unfortunately you really will be there the whole day.
The Canadian system (or any public system) gets a bad rap for wait times, but it's not like everyone is just walking around with open wounds and broken bones here. I work in a hospital, and if you come in and need an MRI urgently, you get it. If it can wait, you wait. We aren't fully public, and if you want a private MRI next day you can pay for it (and in fact, the last time I compared local prices vs prices in Montana, we were cheaper).
FWIW, my kid always wanted to go to the playground when she was a youngster. When she hit around 11, she was no longer interested. Computer took over.
I wonder if being an overprotective parent stems from the desire to use their children as benchmarks for their own success?
I had a paper rejected from nature after 5 revisions and two years. It ended up as the top paper ever in a second tier journal. Two extension papers from other groups on areas that we flagged as possible future extensions did make it in Nature last I checked.
https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2014/03/europe...
https://www.cnn.com/2024/12/22/us/mother-arrested-missing-so...
But the lack of sidewalk and the description as a place “no on walks” is a bit more problematic.
We definitely have roads like that and would be horrified if my kid was walking along it — and the cops picking them up would be probably appropriate
But arresting the parents is over reaction; kids do stupid things, even when taught well. And there was a guardrail.
In the summer my son same age as the kid in the news story would leave the house after breakfast and some days we wouldn’t see him but for occasional run in the house to grab a snack. I had no idea where he was half the time and we literally lived around a gator and snake infested woods and swamp areas.