Spoofing is a better excuse than a stolen password only in the case of a single email. If there's a conversation spanning multiple messages, a spoofer wouldn't be able to properly answer the messages of the other party, as he doesn't receive them.
It is wild to see people argue against it! They're basically pleading with email providers to collude with attackers to violate their privacy.
Anyway, to further add to my point, depending on the context you don't even need to claim that someone stole your password. In the company where I am now , it is custom that, if someone finds out someone else didn't lock their computer, that someone sends an email (from the victim's account) to the whole office saying that the victim is going to bring cake to the office. DKIM is meant to prove that a message comes from an authorized server, but to prove the identity of the sender as well you need something more.
Edit: to be fair, I do get that with DKIM deniability gets harder. But I think that, for the average person, you would gain more in terms of spam and phising protection than what you loose. High profile targets have to take different security measures than the masses anyway.
Lying isn't a stronger defense to perform abuse than weak keys are for stopping abuse.
You change your password only after you realize it got stolen. If you didn't realize it, then it makes sense you didn't change it. And, depending on the specific case, you could find plausible explanations also for the other points.
You don't need a conversation to cause havoc.
Sure, but my point was different: let's say one of your teacher answered the spoofed email from the principal, you wouldn't be able to (properly) answer that email since you wouldn't receive it. So, in the case of an email exchange between two people, one can't claim his/her emails were spoofed, as the spoofer wouldn't be able to answer the other party's emails in a precise and on topic way. This is without even considering that, bh default, most email clients include the previous messages inside a reply. Meaning that the spoofer would somehow be able to know the other party's reply exactly word by word.