C++ breaks parametricity even with normal templates, since you can e.g. call a method that exists/is valid only on some instantiations of the template.
The issue is that the compiler can't help you check whether your template type checks or not, you will only figure out when you instantiate it with a concrete type. Things get worse when you call a templated function from within another templated function, since the error can then be arbitrarily levels deep.
> My point is that in makes sense for C++ to allow this, I think.
Whether it makes sense or not it's a big pain point and some are trying to move away from it (see e.g. Carbon's approach to generics)