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Showing up early just makes other people feel like they did something wrong by showing up on time.

It could be argued that people can’t be made to feel anything, apart from pain. How people react, on the other hand, may be quite different.

True. Probably wouldn't be a very good argument though.

Other people's feelings about a dimension don't change the dimension.

In a social context, almost everything some people do changes how other people feel.