I don't think the moral intuition of "you should let people do what they want, unless they're hurting other people" is real in the first place. I often see people try and make the claim work, but in even the most basic scenarios, it requires transparently motivated reasoning to dismiss some kinds of hurt as fabricated or illegitimate. "My mother says it genuinely pains her that I've gotten a tattoo, but that can't be true, since I have a right to get a tattoo if I want."