Nearly half Dell's US workforce has rejected RTO. Rather WFH than get promoted (2024)
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Some discussion then: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40729588
A lot of us are happy where we are, level-wise, and if we do want a significant raise, others have pointed out - we're more likely to get it by interviewing, not by getting promoted.
Now, granted, if you're gung-ho and really want the responsibility and the more interesting work that Staff/Principal will give you, fuckin' go nuts - I'm happy there are ambitious folks out there. I just want to do my job and then go play with my kid.
Most of the Staff/Principal engineers around you are not there because they don't have other (sometimes much better on the face of it) opportunities - we're here because of inertia and realm expertise.
Every single terrible job experience is the result of a shitty power tripping manager. Take away the manager's power over you and suddenly your job will be fun and fulfilling again.
And not being in the country on an H1B…
This is not a rant against H1B Visa holders. It’s a condemnation of the system that makes their ability to stay in the country contingent on their job.
I saw it first hand at AWS. When Amazon started Amazoning when I was working there, I knew what was up and wasn’t stressed, didn’t jump through the hoops to stay off PIP and when they gave me the choice of getting 4 months severance and “leave immediately”. I took the money and ran and got another job in 3 weeks.
My coworkers who were there on H1B, were definitely afraid, even if they did have more than enough money to hypothetically tide them over.
I knew I could get a job, a contract, start independent consulting or do something before my money ran out. That wasn’t an option for them.
For those who don’t know how the PIP process works at Amazon…
- if you choose to “leave immediately” instead of working through the PIP, you got one month of base pay for every year and partial year you worked there.
- if you failed the PIP (and you will), you got 1/3 of the original amount.
- of course you can appeal. But if you fail (and you will). You get 1/2 of the 1/3.
From what I read, it’s also much easier to get and L1 Visas aren’t subject to the same caps and red tape.
I personally wouldn’t even move across the country beholden to a single company
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38474212
I would be very hesitant to create roots in another country - like buying house - dependent on one company and not having a back up plan and the expectation that it was temporary and a way to save a lot of money
From the context of my previous comments, I hope you don’t read that as anti- immigration question
But they couldn’t do like I could when I saw the writing on the wall when I was about to get Amazoned
Options for me:
1. F** it. I will just quit and start working on building up my own independent cloud consulting business (I worked in Professional Services)
2. Stick around until the official PIP comes and get a 3+ month severance and survive until my next vesting period. One of my former coworkers suggested this. He was a director at an F500 company and said he could at least get me a very well paying contract until he could get a position created for me once I got PIPd. He wanted me specifically.
3. The option I chose was to work for another consulting company that didn't offer sponsorships - I asked for another coworker who was looking.
> This is not a rant against H1B Visa holders. It’s a condemnation of the system that makes their ability to stay in the country contingent on their job.
They are always free to go back to their home countries.
Neither the US, nor their employer, is obligated to guarantee them anything more than the circumstances and conditions that the visa holders agreed to in the first place. The circumstances and conditions that the holders agreed to because they decided, voluntarily, that they would be better off in the US than in their home countries.
https://www.chugh.com/news/h1-b-workers-unemployment-benefit...
Having been both employee and manager, it's hardly that one-sided. For example, having an employee coming in high is not the manager's fault.
BTW, as my career progressed, I tended to shift my view of the manager as less of someone telling me what to do into a partner who was empowered to remove obstacles to my doing the job successfully.
This is actually one of defined and quite successful current management models.
I welcome AI that replaces the mediocre bottom 80% of managers that lower a companies bottom line. The top 20% won't be replaced soon.
At review time he told me in a very condescending tone "I just don't think I can recommend you for a raise this year."
My response was "Oh good. That means I can do whatever I want."
Nobody had ever said that to him before. Shortly afterward he took a leave of absence for mental health reasons.
Highly relevant:
TIL what "FYIFV" means at Microsoft. "Fuck You, I'm Fully Vested" means that a person is so rich from Microsoft stock that he can be completely honest to coworkers and can leave anytime. <https://np.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/1ax59rb/til_w...>
May the PHBs R.I.P.
It seems the Musks and Ghosns of management reject this hands off approach and achieve great results.
Senior Software Engineer was the best job I ever had. The perfect balance of autonomy and responsibility.
I loved, loved, loved being a technical SME and engineer.
It was incredibly satisfying and fun. I got greedy and also enjoyed systems, so I moved into an architect role, then director/exec.
I have a great job and enjoy the company and mission… but the politics is exhausting.
My guess is I would be either an excellent manager or an appalling one. Either way, I have absolutely no wish to do it. My wife is saying I should go for it in order to continue climbing the ladder.
I can’t pretend I’m not glad to see someone who would have been happy sticking as well. Hopefully you get the chance to demote yourself soon :)
"When you're in Hollywood and you're a comedian, everybody wants you to do other things. All right, you're a stand-up comedian, can you write us a script? That's not fair. That's like if I worked hard to become a cook, and I'm a really good cook, they'd say, 'OK, you're a cook. Can you farm?'"
If anything, I think I probably exercise my technical expertise more as an engineering manager than I did as a principal engineer, but that’s probably a matter of difference in company culture and my current team. Generally I think both roles end up leaning on a mix of systems thinking, interpersonal skills, and generally the ability to have a vision and sell it to other people. As a principal engineer I was focused on the technical systems and the vision was about ways to make the organization I was working in more effective by setting a vision for what areas we invested in technically, how systems owned by different teams worked together, and in some cases involved getting hands on to help out or build a prototype.
As a manager I’m focused on an area of the product, business outcomes, and how to ensure that my team is productive over both a short and longer time horizon. It means setting a product vision, understanding the technical and organizational work needed to get there, and selling that vision to get the time and resources needed. Sometimes it means getting my hands dirty to build a prototype, or to take things off my team’s plate so they can be more effective.
I’ve been lucky that my recent jobs have all had enough interesting deep technical problems to go around and I’ve still been able to do some of that work, but neither role has involved the kind if regular deep technical work I had as a senior IC.
I think real senior roles are generally the place with the hardest technical problems, and moving up in any direction sets aside some of those problems in favor of learning to get leverage from influence.
Or was it because the scope was nice, and you didn't much care what happened outside the scope?
(Both are valid ways that people look at jobs, at different times, and in different situations. Just interested in anecdata and insights into how I should think about hiring.)
I’m sure I could make a gnarly salary somewhere but I’m extremely happy with the free time that I have. Beats any other job that I’ve had by a mile.
Now if I were to choose, getting paid 15k less and stay remote in a LCOL area vs get that pay raise to live in a presumably more expensive city to RTO, it’s a no brainer. Even if I live in a HCOL area and I don’t go to the office, it is still a win. I live in the Bay Area, relatively close to the office and just commuting to the office, if I use public transportation, is about $300/month ($3600/year). If I drive, pay for parking, bridge tolls, and pay for lunch, I suddenly start spending $2000/month to RTO ($8 toll, $16 lunch and $25 parking 5 days a week). I’d need almost $40-50k pre tax raise to break even, which most companies refuse to give. And that is on top of time I waste commuting and the added work responsibilities I now have to take on.
The incentives to RTO are really not there.
If you really want to be staff, you can try interviewing elsewhere for that position, and negotiate to get the high end of that.
When companies promote internally, they have a huge advantage against random employers on the market: There is vastly less uncertainty about the employee's value. The promotion you get has every reason to be competitive with open positions on the market. But they often seem to promote into underwhelming positions, perhaps they figure the employee would value staying at the same company.
There's a lot of assumption I don't agree with in that, but I would assume their logic is something like that.
The rest are literally calling Dell's bluff that any potential promotion would be less valuable (monetary or well-being). Good on them!
That's an absolutely massive chunk of time.
https://www.census.gov/topics/employment/commuting/guidance/...
A tremendous amount of time is saved just by being home.
God only knows how long that route takes now, but guaranteed the suck level has not gone down.
For example, I suspect the average waiter or retail working isn't going to favor a far away location over something close to them. They all probably offer similar compensation and work environments. However, a white collar worker is more likely to take a faraway job if it pays well.
I can do that to the amount I need to in about 15 minutes WFH, but it takes much longer if I'm going into the office.
99% of time if you want to get promoted or get a pay rise you apply somewhere else if you want your pay to match your responsibilities.
I want to write good code and build great products. But in the corporate world, visible work is more important than good work. So, there are two options for me: either be a staff engineer or a manager. While staff seems like the obvious choice, in most companies, staff engineers are just managers who code. The number of meetings and admin work goes through the roof. Not to mention the nasty politics and mind games you have to play just to survive.
So, if I have to choose between staying at home or getting promoted, WFH is the obvious choice. Oh, and I learned late that hopping jobs is far better than chasing promotions for my financial and mental health.
managers, by definition, have direct reports while ICs do not. for L5/L6 roles you're a mix of tech lead/architect/product mgr, with broader scope. you do have more meetings, but they're typically ones where your input is needed, not just ceremonial bs.
Post-senior paths are kind of hazy, and I’d rather job-hop than climb these ladders. The number of times I’ve gone “above and beyond” only to hear, “Sorry, we don’t have the budget for a raise,” is exhausting.
I'd have loved to stay and live near our nice offices and biked or short drive to work, but it literally wasn't affordable and just got worse over the 10 years I was in-office.
You reach an age where you have make a decision on these life choices and so WFH/remote it was. It wasn't really a choice when no company would pay enough to afford a home near their offices (married with children) - so sorry/not sorry?
You put in way more work than preparing for interviews for a raise that is often less than job hopping.
You want me to grind for two years for a raise when I can just be a C player and get it from someone else with stories about being an A player?
TL;DR: got here first | overworks | never ever does anything that could possibly be construed as challenging authority, such as having original ideas in front of someone ranked higher than you, or trying to help create some semblance of process.
Being absurdly incompetent at writing maintainable code that had serious, consequential, misunderstandings of the material needed to implement it? That's fine.
it's a feature, not a bug, to do just good enough a job to rush exec misunderstandings into prod, as long as anything wrong with it can be dissembled verbally, unless someone else wants to dig into the code.
This would have sounded horribly cynical and bitter and loser-speak when I was younger. Now that I saw it first hand, it clarified for me why people do startups and turnover is high, given it was a $300K/year job if you just show up 20 hours a week, and 40 hours a week for a month or two a year.
Younger me: lesson here is either care, and do a startup, or don't care and do the family and skiing or whatever.
Your plan of "I should go bank money for a few years so I can leave and do my own place safely" panned out great.
Your plan of "wow...standards are this low? People will see it and care, certainly if you're doing extremely impactful work" was completely wrong.
Promotions are overrated and if you are in software you should be making a comfortable living from the beginning.
More money can be helpful, but it isn't worth the stress of chasing promotions and playing the political games required at higher levels.
Interviewer: “mr. so-and-so, I see that you worked as XXXXX at YYYY for ZZZZ number of years, can you tell us about the core reason your career stagnated and you were not promoted in all that time there?”
* assumes you somehow got the interview…
I've also had interviews where I had to explain long gaps in employment, another topic many assume will be uncomfortable or a red flag. It all comes back to telling a good story at the end of the day, explain what you learned, why you were in that position, and how you are better for it.
I cannot over-stress how important this is.
Being on a bad team will drain you fast, no matter how interesting the work is.
Meanwhile, churning out widgets is something you can do if you enjoy the people you're doing it next to.
I haven’t needed to look for employment in the past year or so, but I’ve heard some terrible things about the job market, enough that I’d be surprised if it was still possible given how slow hiring seems to be.
I look around my workplace and see Indians building simple CRUD APIs because allegedly Americans can't? lol.
But everyone was determined to learn absolutely nothing from it, and just go back to normal but even worse.
Yep, I had no problem finding remote jobs before Covid. Now I get no interviews, every application rejected due to competing with literally thousands of remote "applicants" per job.
We saw how fragile our entire system is from infrastructure to food. We saw how quickly a bit of fear turned an entire political party (at least in the US) from vilifying big pharma to putting it on a pedestal, handing over mountains of money, and creating legal cover for any and all liability. We saw how strong of a grip the news media has over society, turning public opinion on a dime as new recommendations/talking points came down. We saw how intertwined social media and the government really is.
WFH feels like a quaint novelty to me in the context of what all went wrong and what lessons were missed during the pandemic response.
https://www.cidrap.umn.edu/covid-19/political-party-affiliat...
Again who has been the anti vax party since 2020? Trump is literally trying to appoint an anti-vaxxer to his cabinet
can send you one for every single one… GOP became “anti-vax” when they realized they can make it a political issue after they fucked up everything imaginable covid related (and paid the price for it in 2020 elections)
If you're referring to RFK as the anti-vaxxer, unless I'm mistaken he has been pretty clear that he isn't opposed to vaccines in general. I don't know all of his arguments or views, but the limited stuff I've seen from or about him indicates that he was opposed to the Covid vaccine and the process it was rushed through with little to no scientific study. I haven't seen him argue against all vaccines, my guess is he is more in favor of the more standard approach of things like attenuated virus vaccines.
> Vaccination has probably saved more lives and is better researched than most, if not all, aspects of healthcare.
It's worth noting that the fact checking article you linked to doesn't really include much in the way of fact checking. They don't include and then discredit specific studies or data points that RFK uses. They do include a few quotes from credentialed individuals like the one above, though it ultimately says nothing and includes fluffy words like "probably saved..."
With that said, I have no idea how much of a smoking gun there might be linking vaccines to autism. My point here isn't that RFK is right, but it is important to at least represent his arguments accurately and to discredit with proper data to show that his view isn't backed by the data.
His “concerns” about autism has been debunked repeatedly and not taken seriously by anyone in the scientific community. He was claiming a link between autism and vaccines for vaccines that did go through the standard approval process and have been around for years.
There is no “data” about vaccines link to autism.
Vaccine use and autism rates are pretty well correlated. In no way does that imply causation and I agree that RFK leans too heavily into thinking that link exists, but it is also the case that we don't have much good scientific data there either way.
Studies for vaccine safety generally don't follow a timeline necessary to pick up links to autism or similar conditions that either take years to develop, or show up one generation down. That isn't unreasonable, the number of confounding factors there would be next to impossible to isolate over such a long time. That still leaves us with little more than modelling and epidemiology to either prove or disprove the link though, at least as I read that the argument couldn't be settled either way.
> Meanwhile, Nancy Pelosi, Democratic speaker of the United States House of Representatives, has said any vaccine must meet safety standards before being released if it is to be accepted by the public.
https://www.politico.com/news/2023/09/23/gop-voters-vaccines...
> Among Democratic voters, 76 percent said they “care more about potential health benefits than the potential health risks of vaccines.” But among Republicans, it’s split evenly: 51 percent care more about the potential health risks, while 49 percent care more about the benefits.
This alone is a big flip in what they ultimately supported though. The Covid vaccine was rushed through with limited, and flawed, studies and didn't meet any existing safety standards. The studies that were done were extremely limited in duration and only tested for the most severe safety issues that may show up within days of getting the vaccine. The studies also didn't cover a broad enough range of ages or preexisting conditions to support a blanket statements that it was safe for everyone to take.
It's also worth noting that they never did any meaningful safety studies to validate the idea of taking more than the original one or two shots. Safety of booster shots, which were initially were said to not be required at all, was never studies and the recommendation was based only on the view that the original shots were safe and they weren't aware of reasons why a booster wouldn't be.
Its important for me to note here that I'm not even saying whether they did or did not turn out to be safe, only what was studied and how decisions were made.
you do realize that even though trump lost there were few congresman and senators that were republican right?
and of course the most famous anti-vaxxer is RFK Jr - a Democrat. Democrats were anti-vaxxers before it was cool. Rand Paul was stupid enough to believe by now fully retracted study about the “link” between vaccines and autism
But yet you dismiss the then Speaker of the House of Representatives?
These are the Republican Governors who fought against vaccines
https://www.politico.com/news/2021/10/17/governors-covid-vac...
you are too funny mate…
it was easy to fight the vaccines in late 2021, it just became cool thing politically to rile up MAGA base. all those governors were kissing the top of the needles when that suited them politically
https://www.politico.com/news/2023/10/09/rfk-jr-announces-he...
So now the Republican Governors, the former Republican Speaker of the House who was against vaccines in 2015 were all anti-vax, Trump’s presumptive nominee as the Head of Health and Human Services is anti-vax, but it was the Democrats who are anti-vax?
Can you name on Democratic governor, Senator or Representative who railed against Covid vaccines after they were approved in December 2020?
“ We declare independence from the cynical elites who betray our hope and who amplify our divisions. And finally, we declare independence from the two political parties.”
You do remember that Trump also didn’t take part in any of the primary debates either?
I do remember that Trump skipped the primaries and I also take issue with that. If the Republican party had any backbone they would have made clear that only candidates taking part in the primary could be on the party's primary ballots.
We had a democratic election with two candidates that took no part in primaries. Though not unprecedented in US history, its a huge problem in my book.
it is insane you have to even write this but here we are... :)
Though not unprecedented in US history, its a huge problem in my book.
huge problem but more of a problem on a democratic party side. while trump did not want to participate in the debates, he won the primary by getting enough votes to become a republican presidential nominee. not a soul voted for kamala to be democratic presidential nominee... while many different "excuses" were made why her campaign failed this by itself was an issue that was not discussed enough. in my small personal circle 2 people specifically said they voted for trump in large part because of this
https://www.statnews.com/2020/08/27/trump-has-launched-an-al...
It is worth pointing out that plenty of Democrats, and I'll stick with party leadership here, spoke poorly of scientists who broke ranks and didn't follow the pushed narrative. The debate over where the virus came from is a great example, a small number of scientists publicly raised concerns that it was a lab leak and everyone from party leadership to Fauci, the CDC, and the FDA attempted to discredit those individuals with direct statements and pressure on media organizations to do the same.
Of course mistrust of vaccinations have been prevalent in non-white populations due to things like the Tuskeegee syphilis program and other instances of the US performing medical experiments on the populace.
The reason that uptake in the COVID vaccine wasn’t lower at first was because like everything else, health care is worse in the Black community.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9974364/#:~:text=By....
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna301646
Rand Paul was speaker of the House at the time.
Then it all flipped on it's head, and 1984 style, no one seems to remember. Liking vaccines was always progressive. We've always been at war with east asia (but don't mention where in east asia the virus came from).
For clarity on my end, the american Democratic party was going after big pharma and the Sackler family specifically for the opioid epidemic. In comes concerns over Covid (or CoV-2) and the same party completely embraced big pharma and vaccines developed under EUA. Hell, the President tried multiple times in televised speeches to push everyone to get vaccinated for fear of killing the elderly and dying over Christmas holiday.
Or is it that you don’t see going after gouging American consumers for the same drugs that other countries get a lot cheaper?
The first Covid vaccine wasn’t approved until December 11, 2020 after Trump had lost the election and wasn’t available widely until March or April of 2021.
I didn't say there are no differences, of course there are. I also wasn't talking about all vaccines, or even vaccines at all really. I was trying to point out that just before the pandemic we had Democratic politicians and much of the media demonizing big pharma companies, and just a few months after all of that disappeared and those same companies were being handed billions of dollars, given even more legal liability cover, and were being talked about as saviors of us all.
> Or is it that you don’t see going after gouging American consumers for the same drugs that other countries get a lot cheaper?
There are some politicians going after this and that's a good thing, I don't see it as the most important problem with big pharma though, and the progress here has been slow to nonexistent.
> The first Covid vaccine wasn’t approved until December 11, 2020 after Trump had lost the election and wasn’t available widely until March or April of 2021.
Agreed, that's the correct timeline. Trump was still in office when Warp Speed began and he was originally the one pushing for a vaccine. Many Democratic leaders were on the record calling it Trump's vaccine and implying or directly saying they wouldn't trust a vaccine he rushed through the process, effectively calling it a political move to get something out and claim that he fixed it.
You realize that operation Warp Speed was championed by Trump right? Even if that weren’t the case, the company controlled by the Sackler family had nothing to do with the vaccines that came to market.
> given even more legal liability cover, and were being talked about as saviors of us all.
This was also championed by Trump…
And the entire idea about saying that Democratics were going after abuses by Big Pharma was saying they were against medicine is like saying when they were going against the manufacturer of the Pinto they were against cars.
I'm not sure if you read my full comment before replying, I specifically called this out in my last paragraph.
Edit: to include that I'm also not supporting Trump or saying he did things well. I'm only making a comparison of the Democratic party leaderships' opinions and statements before and after Biden took office. What was Trump's vaccine and had to go through standard safety tests before they would consider it became Biden's victory with a vaccine rushed through EUA, required for all federal employees, and recommended for everyone including children who were never even studied (unless you consider a test population of 30 statistically significant).
It was approved before the inauguration. No one thought it was “Biden’s victory”
Biden and his campaign would disagree with you though he frequently spoke highly of the vaccine and his administration's role in it. Prior to the election Biden was one of those calling it Trump's vaccine and raising concerns over rushing it and the safety of it in general.
I would work on the same laptop at an office that I do at home. I doubt they would even provide me an ultrawide 2nd monitor that I also use at home.
I don't get why some companies are so obsessed with RTO for jobs like software engineers, who have no reason to be in the office anyway and tend to have enough technical savvy to figure out slack and zoom (which people use in the office too btw). I mean, if I set aside my cynicism. What do they get out of it?
All these tech companies are in very high COL urban areas. In fact, they always put their office in some downtown area as well, so even going to the cheaper suburbs of the area is not always feasible due to commute. It seems like they would save so much money by letting engineers WFH:
* Less money spent on office lease, existing office space can be leased to someone else
* Less money spent on utilities, kitchen snacks, custodial...
* You get more chances to "suck people in" to do just one more thing after hours, since they basically live in their office now (I thought that was the management dream?)
* Since the WFH can work in a low COL area, they might accept lower pay
* The paycheck becomes more efficient, as both sides pay less tax. Also, often RTO means moving to a state which has much higher state income tax as well.
* Child care costs can be massively reduced for the employee, reducing salary expectations
* You have a bigger pool of people to hire, not just people in your area
* I suspect employees subconsciously count commute towards "hour worked" and adjust their hourly pay accordingly - with WFH the commute is 10 seconds so their subjective pay increases further
* A common WFH play is to relocate to a low tax, small govt state which also has fewer regulations for the employer, which saves even more money
* People might be more likely to eat at their desk, rather than: Walk to restaurant, order, eat, walk back...
* No physical contact probably means fewer HR incidents, less work for HR, so you can reduce HR headcount
The savings and efficiencies seem crazy, an I'm baffled how they figure that RTO is a good idea. I get that they have this fear that WFHers will watch Netflix all day instead of working... But honestly, when's the last time you had a software job where, when you miss your targets (KPIs, Jira tickets, whatever) you could get away with "but boss, I've been in the office all day this week! It's not my fault I couldn't get it finished". All these roles are already heavily biased towards deliverables rather than how many hours you spent delivering.
Being in the office isn't even the worst part. But the office is always in a location that's extremely hostile to employees. Why can't they open a second office in some cheap place like rural Arkansas, where the workers can get cheap quality housing with a short commute, and send some managers over there? There's something to be said for working in your pyjamas, of course, but this seems like a pretty good compromise.
As for trying to get someone who is already WFH to RTO... Sheesh. Suppose they do relocate back within commuting distance. They got into a lease or mortgage, that would otherwise be a bad deal, just so they could come to your office. Who's to say you don't lay them off anyway in a few months? And then they'll be stuck with a house they don't need or want. This creates a risk for the employee, that must be mitigated by having an even higher salary expectation.
RTO seems like swimming against the current in so many ways. Maybe I'm missing something really big here.
There are benefits for employees working at home, there are benefits to companies for employees coming to work. Letting people self-select seems like a great way to have a culture that acknowledges the benefits and weaknesses of both modalities.
I’d prefer this as a filter to the old school “first in, last to leave” bullshit.
Citation needed.
There will be high performers who choose to stay at home and there will be high performers who choose to go in. Between the two, they're going to choose the ones that go in. They clearly place some sort of value on having people in office, whether that is to help grow new employees, build a specific in-office culture, or because they want their leads and leaders to have physical, face to face interactions.
I just don't believe it is bad for them to be transparent about what they want, to use it as a filter for who they're going to promote, and set expectations accordingly. If you don't like it, you can choose not to work there.
One is that Dell wanted to use stay at home as a filter for promoting people that believe in it, the other is that Dell was using promotion as a stick (as in carrot and stick) to get people to come into the office.
We can't really say which of these they're doing, but my vote would be the former.
So Dell may view these employees as those disengaged and just there for a paycheck.
I have WFH a lot and never really had any issues with it and generally preferred it over commuting. But I did miss the in-office connection. Having taken a 100% remote leadership role, it hit me why all these executives are freaking out and mandating RTO. If your job is to communicate in the course of creating and changing processes to drive the company forward, then your job is easily twice as hard when everyone is remote. Sprinkle in a handful of offshore teams and...
No one ever gets on camera. I and other leaders set an example and get on camera for every meeting, but most employees and contractors do not follow suit. So, I lose any body language communication from them, and if they can see mine, I don't get the feedback from that since I can't see them. Very subtle loss of information but it adds up to be huge. You end up having to pull everything out of ICs to get them to engage. It is fucking exhausting. Not only that, when you multiply this across the organization it obviously compounds and can spiral into a lot of uncertainty.
Additionally, you are in meetings constantly where you are fixed in position in front of your station. For those of us on camera it seems to take a lot more energy than being in person, like you have to stage yourself since you can always see your image and you are subconsciously paying attention to it and adjusting. Contrasted with being in a meeting where you are in the room with nearly everyone at once where a matrix of (again) body language is constantly feeding information to everyone. All of that is lost. Even if we are all on camera I cannot focus on every tile and we certainly not making adhoc one-on-one body language connections as the meeting progresses.
To the average employee, they don't care about losing all that if they can skip the commute and spend more time with their family. I totally get it, but for leadership it is soul crushing.
Managers pull your heads out of your ass and lean into the change in working habits.
There's a lot you can do to maintain the benefits of office work, just realize you aren't peoples #1 priority and you never were.