I think that it's a combination of two things:
1. many webdevs just have no clue what a thread is, because generally, they don't need it, so it isn't taught;
2. most of the documentation you can find online was written by people (and now ChatGPT) who don't understand async, sprinkle the word randomly and tweak things until they seem to work.
As a consequence, webdevs learn that async is magic. Which is a shame, because the underlying model is almost simple (the fact that we have both micro-tasks and tasks complicates things a bit).
JavaScript doesn't have threads.
It looks like web workers is the way for JavaScript to do multi-threading.
Async has always been enough for what I need to do in the front end, as most of my long running processes are just calling a back end.
Edit to add: for context, I am a full stack developer and know what threads are... I just never have needed them in the browser.
On the other hand, the isolation guarantees are strong. There aren't really any footguns. Messaging is straightforward, works with a lot of data types and supports channels for inter-worker communication.
Both your points, 1 + 2, are variations on that.
The right answer is the problem is the language design.
Yea targeting the web is nuts if you have other options!