The reality is that effectiveness of masking is dependent on relatively strict protocols for masking. While masking does work in clinical environments, early research on covid spread has shown that there was very little if any public health effect attributable to masking mandates in particular.
Think of it as running publicly facing web service based on an extremely popular software. The sheer amount of skiddy traffic ensures that unless you are diligent and methodic at applying protective measures something will eventually slip through. If your cumulative probability of "catching" something over certain period approaches 1 with a "security" measure on, that measure is effectively ineffective even if you can show efficacy.
Imagine you are an admin on some computer network and notice that a particular node is infected with some worm. Intuitively (or following best practices) you isolate that node first and foremost instead of deploying some protective measures on the rest of the nodes. This approach is more effective due to 1:n relationship in infection spread, where your spread block probability is multiplied by the number of healthy nodes if deploy protective measures on healthy nodes instead of the infected one.
This is masking. Masking is much more effective when deployed on the sick, however for many diseases detection lags behind spread due to symptoms lagging behind infection. So you have this weird tautology. Masking is only effective if the majority of the population, including asymptomatic, uses masks correctly. Otherwise the sheer amount of viral particles one is bombarded with still ensures infection ratio larger than one.
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> On the one side we have people that say 'our bodies need to learn again to fight against viruses'
Sorry, but this is scientifically dumb take. Yes, immunity against repeat exposure does build up, but you are playing russian roulette. There are no benefits to contracting a "full" disease while there are risks associated with that. Prevention carries much lower risks at similar or better reward.