I'm pretty sure most people, developers especially, have had magical, life-changing experiences with LLMs. I think the problem is that they can't cant do these things reliably.
I get this sentiment from a lot of AI startups, that they have a product which can do amazing things, but due to its failure modes makes it almost useless as, to use an analogy from self-driving cars, the users have to still constantly pay attention to the road: you don't get a ride from Baltimore to New York where you can do whatever you please, you get a ride where you're constantly babysitting an autonomous vehicle, bored out of your mind, forced to monitor the road conditions and surrounding vehicles, lest the car make a mistake costing you your life.
To take the analogy farther, after experimenting with not using LLM tools, I feel that the main difference between the two modes of work is similar to driving a car and being driven by an autonomous care: you exert less mental effort, not, you get to your destination faster.
Another point of the analogy are things like Waymo. They really can do a great job of driving autonomously. But, they require a legible system of roads and weather conditions. There are LLM systems too that when given a legible system to work in can do a near perfect job.