1. That didn't work as I expected.
2. I am confused!
3. Oh, that's how it works! I learned something.
Humans go through this every day, in domains technological and not.
It just goes in circles with personal anecdotes that always coincidentally corroborate whatever position someone was already arguing for anyway. What would be really interesting to see is someone making the case against Mastodon but acknowledging that "people I know" weren't confused by it or vice versa.
Sorry for the rant.
It would be clear we were at least talking about things where "the people" had reactions to specific things for specific reasons that were in principle solveable and not merely ghosted into existence to support a point the commenter wanted to make anyway.
I think people see one another doing it and kind of collectively converge on this ritual of collective storytelling where we offer anecdotes that don't offer any kind of truth tracking accountability.
are hard concepts from math and science bad concepts? should we discard calculus?
is potty training a toddler a bad concept? they initially struggle with it and some find it hard
is a healthy diet a bad concept? people without prior knowledge of what's healthy and what isn't are likely to struggle
But it's not a hard concept, it's just unfamiliar to them.
People being confused by a concept after it has been taught to them suggests that either the concept is hard or the educational process inadequate. Confusion on initial introduction has nothing to do with difficulty.
The Web still lacks a first-class concept of a user identify that you can take with you across servers.
But now you can, so we're on to the next whack-a-mole.