There is nothing in lsp world that comes close to PhpStorm for PHP and RubyMine for Ruby.
Formatting tooling was chosen before several members joined my team. It was chosen due to having far fewer dependencies than ESLint+Typescript+Prettier etc. One package... one setup.
Secondly, what exactly do you think managing is? Someone has to make the ultimate decision and be responsible for it. Perhaps you think a manager is someone who's constantly wandering around taking a vote from everyone on how they want to steer the ship? While I do strive to find concensus among my team that's not leading. Agree to disagree there.