Is iTerm2 noticeably slow? I just use the built in Terminal app and I can’t imagine “speed” being a reason to switch away from it. (There is no lack of speed.)
Wezterm moves instantly.
I keep using a lot of fresh tabs all the time and iTerm resizes instantly via Rectangle for me.
Ghostty was a bit more sluggish in resizing on an Intel Mac than iTerm in the current latest versions.