this is why I'm not on team monorepo. Let other teams vendor their dependencies and upgrade on their own time. Just don't go trying to release N versions. Measure who is on an old version and work with them to update. But again, this slow team allows the other N-1 teams to adopt the new version and provide value to the org.
for those of you who are pro monorepo and have worked in one with dozens of teams in different orgs who have competing priorities and can't upgrade a dependency in lock-step, how have you solved this?