But then I actually saw some of the math (very basic Hisenberg uncertainty equations) and good comparisons to classical wave mechanics and wave interference. Everything made more sense.
As a layman with some very rudimentary understanding of the math, I would ignore ALL talk about "farming out" and "parallel universrs" and similar concepts. I think thise ideas are charged with too many interesting but fantastical elements which you probably don't find in actual quantum mechanics.