The entire site may take multiple seconds to load, sure, but it's quite rare that this is a React issue. Typically, the real issue is something like the website making a bunch of API requests in serial rather than parallel. For instance, the issue of JSON parsing that you cited is actually an SSR issue; that's entirely orthogonal to React, and you can make the same error in any other popular web framework.
> I actually think most of the problem isn’t React itself, it’s the ecosystem and the philosophy that surrounds it so often. You’ll have React, you’ll have some extra state management library on top, you’ll have some hideous CSS in JS bulk on top because no one wants to actually learn CSS… it’s all prioritisation of developer experience over user experience. And it’s industry standard these days.
I think you're saying "React is slow" when you mean to say "the entire frontend ecosystem is slow". To which I respond... sure? None of this is React-specific. If you don't use React, you'll still have to use state management (or manage it yourself; have fun!), figure out something to do with CSS, etc, etc.