As they should. Postel's Law was a terrible idea and has created minefields all over the place.
Sometimes, those mines aren't just bugs, but create gaping security holes.
If your client is sending data that doesn't conform to spec, you have a bug, and you need to fix it. It should never be up to the server to figure out what you meant and accept it.
Anyhow, I can't say I'm thrilled that some deeply nested subtree of divs for instance might be closed by a open-button tag just because they were themselves part of a button, except when... well, lots of exceptions. It's what we have, I guess.
It's also not a (fully) solved problem; just earlier this year I had to work around an issue in the chromium html parser that caused IIRC quadratic parsing behavior in select items with many options. That's probably the most widely used parser in the world, and a really inanely simple repro. I wonder whether stuff like that would slip through as often were the parsing rules at all sane. And of course encapsulation of a document-fragment is tricky due to the context-sensitivity of the parsing rules; many valid DOM trees don't have an HTML serialization.
You can see that in the case where ASN.1 data need to be exchanged. You could decide to always send them in the DER form (conservative) but accept BER (liberal). BER is still an unambiguous encoding for ASN.1 data but allow several representations for the same data.
The problem with BER mainly lies with cryptographic signature as the signature will only match a specific encoding so that's why DER is used in certificates. But you can still apply Postel's law, you may still accept BER fields when parsing file. If the field has been incorrectly encoded in a varied form which is incompatible with the signature, you will just reject it as you would reject it because it is not standard with DER. But still, you lessen the burden to make sure all parts follow exactly the standards the same way and things tend to work more reliably across server/clients combinations.
Doing otherwise will require cooperation to adjust on the specificities clients expect, and you fall into the trap of the prisoner dilemna.
Being liberal on what you accept is a path for disaster.
Sure, protocol should be designed to be as specific as possible but unfortunately these are not always defined up to that point for any good or bad reasons, and we generally are at best just in the implementation side and cannot influence the writing of the protocol, so the Postel's law is the best we can apply to avoid having to cooperate with the rest of the planet.
> The principle is also known as Postel's law, after Jon Postel, who used the wording in an early specification of TCP.
> TCP implementations should follow a general principle of robustness: be conservative in what you do, be liberal in what you accept from others.
Better to look in the sources ;)