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> People aren't leaving X because of polite disagreement. They're leaving because ideological extremism and hate not only run wild but are actively promoted by the platform.

I disagree. I think the definition of hate and extremism has been warped to encompass things that aren't either of those things. And that's part of the problem. The rhetoric has become so hyperbolic that we're having a hard time coexisting.

The answer is for us to walk that back, and encourage actual dialogue, not run into our own safe bunkers.

You can talk to the people at your table in a restaurant, and it doesn't matter if the table beside you is talking about something you disagree with. The food tastes the same.

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> I think the definition of hate and extremism has been warped to encompass things that aren't either of those things.

The definitions of hate and extremism are inherently tied to personal values. Many people perceive much of the speech on X as hateful and extremist because it directly contradicts their core values, not because they're arbitrarily expanding those definitions.

> You can talk to the people at your table in a restaurant, and it doesn't matter if the table beside you is talking about something you disagree with. The food tastes the same.

This analogy only works if everyone abides by a social contract. that’s often not the case on X. It’s like if the people at the next table overheard you, didn’t like what you said, and decided to come over and spit in your food. That’s the experience many people have on X.

> Many people perceive much of the speech on X as hateful and extremist because it directly contradicts their core values

People disagreeing with you is not "hate and extremism".

It's not the back and forth, it's the original content that gets posted that you find objectionable, and in which the comments / reposts become quite toxic thereafter with people disagreeing

There is most definitely original content that is hateful, racist, and/or extreme on X that goes beyond the difference of policy or ethical opinions

https://x.com/NickJFuentes/status/1854015641218355621

It's not even arguments. They are saying the quiet parts out loud.

95M likes. This isn't some niche extremist circle to push under the rug.

> I think the definition of hate and extremism has been warped to encompass things that aren't either of those things.

How about we just go dictionary definition:

>denoting hostile actions motivated by intense dislike or prejudice.

can you really argue this past week, month, year. That you have not seen any dictionary-definition hate spread, promoted, and cheered for on the platform? Some by the owner himself?

Twitter isn't a commons. it's an amusement park and Musk is the manager. You don't bother trying to change a manger's mind unless you have millions to start the talk. Abandon Disneyland and try to see if Knott's or Six Flags or Funland fit your vibe more.

> it doesn't matter if the table beside you is talking about something you disagree with. The food tastes the same.

Not when they are slinging their food at me. Experiences and atmosphere are well known to alter your sense of taste. Not just smell (which is obvious, since your nose and tongue are basically connected).

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