Since we're calling people out, allow me to call you out:
Wanting your devices to be private and secure or asking questions about Apple after their f-up doesn't make you a pedo or a pedo sympathiser. Comments that suggest otherwise can also be a bit "sus" (to use your expression), especially in a place like HN where users are expected to know a thing or two about tech and should be aware that the "think of the children" excuse - while good - is sometimes used to introduce technology that is then misused (eg: the internet firewall in the UK that was supposed to protect the children and now blocks sexual education stuff, torrents, etc).
I'll assume your intentions are good, but it isn't right to assume or imply that people complaining about this stuff are pedos.
[0] https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2021/08/if-you-build-it-they-w...
[1] https://www.reuters.com/article/technology/apple-says-it-is-...