As women are rationally aware especially at this politically polarized and contested time - acting on such instincts have consequences! Pregnancy! That part is not generally seen as much fun by many women.
How I would do it - as far back as the 1880s, ovaries were removed. C-section, as the name tells us, goes back to Caesar. All very old surgeries. So women could have the prescribed number of kids they wished for, particularly if a c-section, and then be sterilized. Now they can freely have sex. Now women have 2,3 kids, not 15,20 at least among the higher classes.
Now move onto the 1960s - the pill. Now you don't even need a surgery and it's reversible - just stop taking the pill.
Now the behaviorial instinct to have sex (side effect: reproduction) has been satiated without the downside. Women are very happy. So now we are simply going through a human genetic bottleneck. There exist alleles instead of "horny" it is "really wants a baby" - now this gene is selected for.
So to summarize the argument: - breeding has been dialed down for over 100 years. satisfying sex drive without pregnancy, in many different ways over time - life always finds a way so in the future, perhaps a few generations, procreative genes will be favored versus horny genes.