Its just that American lawmakers don't value traditional American family, they'd rather woman have an abortion, instead of subsidized childcare and 12+ months of paid family leave.
This is not a gender issue, this is the issue of American elites refusing to provide incentives to working American families.
Remember, most of the American societal "struggles" across artificial wedge lines (straight vs gay, male vs female, democrat vs republican, pro-choice vs pro-life, coastal vs rural, etc etc) => are artificially created by the mainstream media and Uniparty in the DC to leech taxes from working families and selectively prop up one side of the struggle, so that another side is outraged and fought the other.
There is only one struggle in America: rich rentiers on Investment income/Trust funds vs Working class on W2 income.
everything else is distraction