They went to Oregon with Betty, a maid, and a cook.
Is Betty a maid or did they go with 3 people?
Is Betty a maid or did they go with 3 people?
†For example:
Betty, one maid, and one cook.
Betty, and a maid and a cook (a little awkward)
A maid, a cook, and Betty (depends on how you want Betty's inclusion to land for the reader)
I'm not saying the Oxford comma is bad. I'm just saying that it isn't 100% perfect as many people imply.
Or better yet: "They went to Oregon with a cook, and maid named Betty."