This seems to pop up in a lot of areas and I find myself asking is X thing a thing I really desire or is it something that is a natural side effect of some other processes.
This seems to pop up in a lot of areas and I find myself asking is X thing a thing I really desire or is it something that is a natural side effect of some other processes.
Once you start looking for these things that are done for their own sake (or really to gain respect in a community) you notice how pervasive they are and how different they can be for two people next to each other.
I recommend Gregory's Savage Money on the subject. My review here: https://entropicthoughts.com/book-review-savage-money
You can also ask what is life about?
This is hard to do because the conclusion may need to break moulds, leading to family estrangement and losing friends.
I suspect people who end up having a TED talk in them are people who had the ability through courage or their inherited neural makeup to go it alone despite descenting voices. Or they were raised to be encouraged to do so.