Obviously, the public gets no benefit when you censor some guy from doing his business in private.
But you're also in danger of providing sexualised child characters for people to jerk off to.
How do you square all of this, I'm interested in hearing how you approached this problem
I would say that anything is fine in private, even that. Better than them looking for the real thing, right? I guess some people are afraid that such content will actually turn people into pedo's, but I don't think that's true any more than watching gay porn will turn you gay.
But, this is probably not the forum for this topic anyway. I understand that there are many complications to this, including the risk for normalization.
Like, is there not some part of that which you feel less than 'fine' about?
I'm not saying that you're wrong or need to stop - just very curious about how/whether you approached the issue.
It's one thing to build guardrails into tools where the impact is immediate and catastrophic, like a safety guard on saw, so that people don't permanently lose a finger to distraction or casual negligence.
It's a different thing -- to be reasonably argued both for and against -- to build guardrails against concerns that are abstract, indirect, cultural, political, etc
And you can tell that your example is more cultural than catastrophic because not everybody frets over what people do by themselves and in their own mind.
Censoring anything meant for private use seems like a pretty pointless exercise. It will either get un-censored, or users will find what they want elsewhere.
E: You also need to ask yourself: assuming that you can't simply suppress other people's desires for things you find objectionable (because you can't), would you rather they use fictional CP with fictional people, or the real deal with real children? Because the real thing very much exists and is quite available despite the laws and social stigma. If you make some vain attempt to prevent anyone from ever creating fictional CP, then what do you think those people will get next?