The license thing had nothing to do with Google. The DMV doesn't use Google maps to mint licenses.
The po box thing also has nothing to do with Google. That's just a policy largely related to the bank secrecy act.
> For an entire week, I was a non-person to this country’s bureaucracy
It took a week to update their address. An out of date address doesn't make you a "non person." A handful of self-service online portals rejected their address change, and they couldn't use their po box for bank or license.
Here's the story,
"We moved to an extremely rural town. It's so off the grid, we had to go to the post office in person to get the address changed. Because we don't get mail at the house, me and my partner had to acknowledge that each of us lived there at the dmv. All in all, it took a week to sort out."