I've used Linux Desktop for 2 years in 2018 for IT studies, it was mandatory. We were like 20 students and there was a new Linux-related complaint, timewaste and workaround every day. Nobody got their degree and thought "Y'know what? i'm gonna use linux at home!"
I still use Linux for servers nowadays, though.
> If you're doing any dev work at all native linux will cause way less headaches than WSL/mingw or whatever.
I use visual studio and I don't dev for linux, so I don't have this problem.
> Even the old folks in my family are all using linux these days because everything they do is in a browser and it's easier for them than windows.
If all you do is use a web browser, you might as well just use a chromebook.
> That and microsoft constantly changing things out from under you and reverting settings
My settings are never touched, but I agree they sometimes change stuff in a way that bothers me. Like, removing file explorer functionality in W11 and remaking it months later. But they usually make up for it by adding other cool features. Such as native (but slow) unzipping, file explorer tabs, power toys and so on.