HIV is the virus that makes you develop (or "acquire") AIDS; AIDS is the condition that weakens and kills you. If you pump the breaks as soon as possible, HIV on its own won't have catastrophic health implications, although it's obviously better not to have it at all.
Yes it does.
You can never let your blood or sexual fluids come in contact with another uninfected person and you can also never be a mother.
Your lifespan probably won't be impacted all that much.
These are two wildly different things.
Similarly, if you take antivirals to get your viral load down to undetectable levels, the risk of sexual transmission is very, very low. The risk is even lower if your partner takes PrEP as well.
You certainly need to take precautions, but people with HIV can live full, normal lives.
Let's say people with HIV can live like most people receiving treatment for a chronic disease.
The rest of your points stands.
This isn't "living a normal life" completely, and the retrovirals have side effects and the regimen needs to be maintained, but the state of things for people with HIV is so much better than it was back in the 90s.
Pretending that should be ignored benefits no one.
The chance of both condoms and antiretroviral therapy failing to prevent transmission simultaneously is always going to be lower than the chance of either failing independently. In practice, many couples decide that the risk of transmission associated with antiretroviral therapy is low enough for them.
Completely false. Treatment is quite effective at preventing transmission in both cases.
Massive improvement to what came before but it's still much worse than most health outcomes people take pains to avoid.
https://www.webmd.com/hiv-aids/aids-hiv-medication-side-effe...