And hey, more power to you. But the thing is, the world has moved on. Linux is stable now. Linux containerization and VM tech is good now. The storage technologies are cross-platform now (I've had zero data loss since using zfs). The moat has shrunk.
So then, what are we left with?
* BSD is less common, so there are fewer CVEs on it. Hackers aren't stupid; they target popular platforms. You get plenty of CVEs for Apple systems (which are BSD, btw).
* Of course, since BSD is less common, it's harder to find employees who are wizards with it.
* Everyone releases for Linux first, so on some things you either have to wait, or do it yourself (or stick it in a Linux VM, at which point...)
* Licensing bites people all the time, but it's hardly a catastrophic thing; merely the normal politics that occur when things get big enough, and enough money is involved. You win by paying good money to hire the better legal team.
So what true benefit is there to using BSD over Linux? Other than satisfying your own self or going with what you're already familiar with, not much.