Commercial fleets in the US will use 3 phase for DC. For commercial installations, this is a non-issue [0]. It's more efficient to use DC charging at scale than reside on the vehicle's onboard rectifier.
>I think north america is going to regret not having 1st class support for 3 phase charging baked into all electrified vehicles in the long term.
It's already here... Where are you getting your information?
[0] https://www.eaton.com/content/dam/eaton/products/emobility/e...