> To be clear, I believe both parties are anti-trans

This is IMHO the most toxic and divisive topic not just in politics, but in society too, it touches upon a universal long and cultural fabric of sex division. What you may consider anti-trans to someone else is updating legislation to cover something they never thought it would need to.

Republicans or conservatives in general, may be opposed to same-sex marriage, but it doesn't specifically make them anti-gay.

For context, I'm not a conservative, I just try and be polite, respectful and understanding to those with opposite opinions, as long as they treat me the same.