For example, if you're protecting the internal state of some data structure with a mutex, the mutex lock and unlock operations are what ensures ordering and visibility of your memory writes. In the critical section, you don't need to do atomic, sequentially consistent accesses. Doing so has no additional safety and only introduces performance overhead, which can be significant on certain architectures.
The main reason it is there today is to satisfy some delegates' requirement that we build in guardrails so as to naturally discourage authors from creating thread-unsafe public APIs and libraries by default. We're exploring other ideas to try to satisfy that requirement without unsafe blocks.
The word "unsafe" will be picked up as meaning "can infect your computer" which we can already see examples of these messages.
Granted, a JS runtime is significantly more complex than a WASM runtime so there is more room for error.
I guess it depends on how you get to said crash, but no, data races on Wasm shared memory cannot "crash" anything. At worst racy reads/writes can produce garbage (primitive) values and put garbage bits into memory locations involved in the accesses. Putting garbage bits into a Wasm memory could lead to a program's logic having bugs (e.g. it could then try to access out of bounds or trap for another reason), but the accesses themselves can't crash anything.
It's unsafe as in, if you don't follow the rules, the resulting value is ~rand().
For those familiar with C/C++ terminology, this is the tame "unspecified behavior" (not the nasal demon "undefined behavior.")
Having said that, an "unspecified result" can still come from anywhere, like a value left in a register from some previous computation or other "garbage" on the stack or heap. This still can be a security issue, even though the behavior is not completely undefined.
The rest is correct.