Yep, there's a balance there somewhere and I haven't done anywhere near enough research to have a strong opinion. So, I'd tend to fall back on "mass is dangerous" when it comes to vehicles, regardless of ICE or EV. And my primary goal is making walking, cycling, or using alternative transportation (electric scooters, etc) more viable.
Tangent: I'd love to replace my wife's BMW 2-series with a lightweight EV. Like an electric Miata or similar. But no such thing exists. :sad-trombone: The BMW is a porker - 3500lbs or so - beating that with an EV should be easy. It's our second car, so range could be a bit lower than some current offerings. No need for 300 mile range on a car that's primarily used to make 10 mile round-trips to the office during the week and 40 mile round-trips to family/friend's homes on the weekends.