Meta does a lot of things that don't scale for reliable/trustworthy systems and aren't suitable for all use-cases. (I also used to work there too.)
ZFS is only reliable where it was battled-tested: on Solaris. ZoL has been infinitely tinkered with and smashed up that it's nothing like running a Thumper as a NAS.
XFS + mdadm on Linux is, without a doubt, far more reliable than ZoL. Ask me how I know. I have the scars to prove it.