> Your argument isn’t with me, it’s with iconic physicists spanning the range from Sean Carrol to David Deutsch.
Of course, and (maybe more importantly) a number of philosophers. However, other philosophers (and, indeed, some iconic physicists) might not disagree.
> any argument against vibes around an asymmetrically deterministic universe with a clear arrow of time and a unique dualist window of self is going to be unpopular
Dualism is popular in general population, but monistic materialism is probably more popular among the tech crowd. Both approaches don’t strike me as elegant, naturally.
> how one chooses to interpret and integrate the vanishing impossibility of free will
Well, how one chooses to integrate the consciousness being the only thing that we can assume objectively exists (as the only thing we have direct access to, empirically) is also personal matter. The ways of waving it off (pretending it’s an illusion, etc.) are many… Once you stop doing that, though, suddenly free will is no longer such a crazy notion.