We avoid effort even though it can improve our well-being
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What they do know is that higher conscientiousness is inherently good up to a point. Extreme conscientiousness is associated OCD type anxiety disorders. Low conscientiousness is inherently bad, so much so that it’s the primary characteristic of any number of disorders such as ADHD and autism. Conscientiousness is also negatively correlated to intelligence at around -0.27.
That being said some people will always avoid effort no matter how immediately associated that effort connects to a goal while other people find joy in an effort merely for the sake of their own industriousness. Although psychology is greatly challenged to associate any form of metric to observable efforts necessary to measure it psychology can still readily identify it.
I can also prove and demonstrate how conscientiousness relates to programming. For example many JavaScript developers cannot write the instructions to navigate a tree model, such as file system or DOM. The effort is just too great and they cannot do it even with years of programming experience. I can take a much less intelligent military soldier with no prior programming experience and teach them to master this skill within four hours of education, and their corresponding output will be vastly superior to that of the experienced programmer who cannot perform that sort of navigational effort. There is no paradox to any of this.
Do you have any resources on this? I have adhd and I have difficulties in these areas.
My best recommendation is to achieve familiarity through practice. That is your only hurdle. Once this becomes almost like muscle memory it will simply feel normal instead of feeling like extra effort. Once that feeling settles in you limits on this activity are gone.
I also recommend gamifying the experience to make the practice more enjoyable. Gamification can include seeing how fast you can get something to execute or seeing new areas of expressiveness or flexibility you can achieve that are more challenging in other ways.
I didn't express myself well. Are there any specific exercises or concepts I should focus on? I struggle with this too. This made me wonder what would I practice in 4 hours that would lead to such outcomes.
I recognize my difficulties and I have tried to find solutions.
Is your method similar to this? https://www.amazon.com/Processing-Recursively-Structured-Dat...
Way way back in the day when I was a JavaScript developer when jQuery was emerging into a cult I had already learned to "walk the DOM". I knew how to do it only because I learned XML and XML Schema before I learned to program in any language, but I wasn't good at it. When I say I "knew it" I really only mean I knew what the DOM methods were, what they returned, and how they could be used together. I had no concept of a vision of seeing everything working instantly in my head.
Because I knew how to do it and none of my available peers knew how I was promoted to a senior front end developer position and made the A/B test engineer for Travelocity. They had tried with jQuery but it always failed. jQuery executed too slowly, broke too frequently in IE. They also had to wait for jQuery to load into the page which took to long, it was the HTTP round trip not the execution of loading jQuery code, and the caused the experiments to render far too slowly. So they needed somebody who could interface with the DOM without jQuery and native querySelectors were not a thing yet.
If I wanted to keep this promotion I needed to write experiment code that just worked. I found the DOM, even in the days of IE8 and IE9, was ridiculously responsive. It was faster than doing some things directly in JavaScript. Through practice I realized that I could write extremely elaborate experiments that wildly mutated all aspects of a complex page and also experiments that spanned multiple pages. It always came down to only two skills: walking the DOM and timing to account for asynchronous things happening in the page. I solved for timing concerns using recursive setTimeout functions to watch for an a targeted state in some area of a page. I learned those skills through trial and effort. I just failed, failed, failed, and then something just worked. Eventually the things that just worked allowed me to do things other developers could not.
This changed forever how I perceived programming because now for me everything is either an instruction or a data structure. Data structures can be navigated, reasoned about, and mutated. Most developers seem to perceive data, like a web page, as something to be queried like using a search engine or writing SQL. You have to unlearn that by practicing a different approach. Beyond that I don't know what further guidance to tell you. It all comes down to practice, persistence, and motivation.
I have not read the book you linked to, but from the title alone it sounds similar to something i would recommend.
I mistook you for austin henly on this website. This made me to think that you were teaching a formal approach to solving this class of problems / some kind of intuition on solving them.
Do you have a citation that supports that claim without qualifiers?
I recently reviewed a bunch of the literature on this topic and it seems like the jury is very much still out, in some cases there is a negative correlation, in others positive, in others none at all.
My mind will actually conjure up disasters in adjacent parts of my life to make me forget what's going on that I should be working on. I'll get all anxious about X, when I'm really just avoiding Y. The more I focus on X, the more I'm avoiding Y, so the worse I feel about X.
There's a little bit of self-cognitive behavioral therapy that I learned through journalling. Once I recognize it I can either A) just ignore my thoughts ('I am not that, that is not me' over and over?) or B) procrastinate productively by saying I'll deal with X later.
Exactly! Discipline is the word you're looking for. Don't expect the block to go away, instead accept it will exist and you're going to go through it every day. I've worked out nearly every day for 20+ years at this point. It's just something that happens.
Another thing to think about is that people tend to avoid being uncomfortable. It's a super power to become comfortable being uncomfortable. Look for opportunities to train yourself to be uncomfortable, however small.
B = MAP
Behavior = Motivation * Ability * Prompt
Whichever plot is closer to the top-right is the one you’ll choose.
Try this by comparing:
1. Wake up to your alarm on your phone (P=1), a bunch of Instagram/Youtube notifications (M=.97), and it’s so easy to scroll you can do it with one finger (A=.98). This is at the top-right of the graph.
2. Get out of bed, find your running shoes (P=0), go for a run (M=.6, A=.5). This is in the middle of the graph but also invisible (no prompt).
So you pick laying in bed scrolling over going for a run every time.
You can flip this by, say, getting an alarm clock that’s not your phone and putting your phone in another room, and placing your bright green running shoes next to your bed.
A key observation here is that P is the most powerful lever in this equation, where often things like social media or junk food are always going to be near the top-right of the graph, so the primary means of attacking those is removing the prompt.
The next most effective lever to adjust is A (ability), placing barriers in your way of the undesirable thing, and removing barriers from the desired behavior.
The least consistent lever is M (motivation). It’s sometimes possible to increase or decrease our motivation, perhaps by journaling on the benefits of exercise and the drawbacks of social media, but that can be inconsistent or be a long-term effort to adjust intrinsic motivation. Motivation is also less consistent, a powerful source when you have it but not always there reliably.
One thing I wonder, can I ask you? it's quite - prudish - but what do you do about innate motivation and needs?
E.g. when I am not in a relationship, I'm either: - relieving things daily at the same time - sporadically going days without, then multiple times a day etc - withholding from that behavior before dates
These 3 all have pros and cons. I wish I could just withdraw totally, but that's not an option.
I don't understand you can minimize a thing that has an ever growing P over time unless you take some action.
The Effort Paradox: Effort Is Both Costly and Valued
Michael Inzlicht
Amitai Shenhav
Christopher Y. Olivola
PDF direct link: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6172040/pdf/nih...
Page: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6172040/
edit: fixed link. Thank you gpvos!
Many focus on making more money. If it isn't about money, it isn't really something meaningful...
From training to playing music, I usually find myself in "remote" conversations about consumption, money, politics. It is extremely rare I hear about truly meaningful subjects.
I'm sure someone else has a similar perspective?
Politics can be meaningful, but also a huge struggle in itself.
I would suppose the same thing with the brain. You need enough neurotransmitters such as dopamine to fire and exert a behavior change. And then there is a reward that causes overall improvements in the body's functionality. Without enough neurotransmitters though, you just can't do it
I find that learning self compassion and letting go of stress has helped me to an extent. Beating yourself for procrastinating only adds internal tension
Just as we should strive to forgive others, and (if they seem well intentioned and not shamelessly deceitful) to be kind and patient with them, it is equally important to do the same with ourselves
Learning to not dwell on our imperfections is equally important as having the self awareness to recognize our flaws
And in doing so that helps streamline our thoughts to give us more motivation
For some people medication like adderall can also be really helpful
And depending on the underlying issue a different remedy is needed
> The path to guidance is one of love and compassion, not of force and coercion. -The Bab
So constantly thinking about the failure to the point of forming an identity as a failure isn't helpful. So it can take effort to look past that and instead problem solve on what went wrong and how to correct it in the future
And if the failure happens a hundred thousand times, keeping that positive forward thinking process is itself a meritorious act I believe, since its a step away from being unhelpful to ourselves
That said, I would say that with some actions, e.g. intentionally harming others in a serious and irraparable way, that troubleshooting then requires a punishment from society, but that is also kindness since it helps the offender grow by forcing consequences of their crime on them. But punishment should not be abusive or cruel like it often is today
But yeah, I would say we all have a lot of baggage to let go of to find true freedom, individually and collectively by taking part in genuinely contributing to society in our best possible way
Most of these ideas are inspired by Baha'i teachings, e.g. the Bab and Abdul-Baha, as well as from the book Tiny Habits by B.J. Fogg, and Allen Carr's books about addiction
I've found the premises of the paper very interesting and I think the so called effort paradox can be also framed in reverse: we make the effort when we think it will be rewarding hence we then appreciate what we obtained more.
One personal example for me is solving programming problems: I sit down for hours to solve them because solving the problem is my goal and looking up the solution in some LLM chat bot would not give me the same feeling but for someone whose goal is using the solution for their goals, relying on an LLM is avoiding a cost to focus their energies on what's really important to them.
I don't know if people really are lazy, I think most of them are smart enough to think through what to invest on and what not.
As someone else also said consistency is key, whatever it's easy for us today has been difficult at the beginning, the reward might come years later we started the journey.
All walled off
> Many people avoid effort due to an instinctual desire to conserve energy, a trait that has evolved over time. This reluctance is often compounded by negative associations with effort, such as past experiences with exercise or a lack of confidence, leading to a preference for sedentary activities despite the long-term benefits of physical activity for well-being.
And I wonder if CFS exists to some extent in everyone who isn't doing ultramarathons ... in other words the nervous system prevents the average person from running 100km a day (or being able to get to that point) BUT... doesn't stop them doing daily life stuff, or keeping basically fit.
I am not sure lazy is even a thing.
I think they're talking about the will to make it, not the ability to.
The reality is that the world isn't fluffy rainbows. Some people just get dealt a bad hand and they're not as capable as others.