Those projects often have dozens of other priorities beyond just one specific API, and obsessing over individual APIs isn't a good way to spend the limited time they have. In any case, as a concrete example to disprove your claim, you can look at malloc and string routines in your average libc on Linux.
glibc's malloc is tolerable but fails handily to more modern alternatives in overall speed and scalability (it fragments badly and degrades over time, not to mention it has a dozen knobs that can deeply impact real life workloads like MALLOC_ARENA_MAX). musl malloc is completely awful in terms of performance at every level; in a multithreaded program, using musl's allocator will destroy your performance so badly that it nearly qualifies as malpractice, in my experience.
musl doesn't even have things like SIMD optimized string comparison routines. You would be shocked at how many CPU cycles in a non-trivial program are spent on those tasks, and yes it absolutely shows up in non-trivial profiles, and yes improving this improves all programs nearly universally. glibc's optimized routines are good, but they can always, it seems, become faster.
These specific things aren't "oh, they're hyper specific optimizations for one architecture that don't generalize". These two things in particular -- we're talking 2-5x wall clock reduction, and drastically improved long-term working set utilization, in nearly all workloads for any given program. These are well explored and understood spaces with good known approaches. So why didn't they take them? Because, as always, they probably had other things to do (or conflicting priorities like musl prioritizing simplicity over peak performance, even when that philosophy is actively detrimental to users.)
I'm not blaming these projects or anything. Nobody sets out and says "My program is slow as shit and does nothing right, and I designed it that way and I'm proud of it." But the idea that the people working on them have made only the perfect pareto frontier of design choices just isn't realistic in the slightest and doesn't capture the actual dynamics of how most of these projects are run.