Not considering all the aspects of a BDR process is what leads to this problem. Not the tool.
Personally I automate restore testing with cron. I have a script that picks two random files from the filesystem: an old one (which should be in long term storage) and a new one (should be in the most recent backup run, more or less), and tries restoring them both and comparing md5sums to the live file. I like this for two reasons: 1. it's easy to alert when a cronjob fails, and 2. I always have a handy working snippet for restoring from backups when I inevitably forget how to use the tooling.
IMO alerting is the trickiest part of the whole setup. I've never really gotten that down on my own.
On another VM, I used postfix to email logs after cronjob (failed or passed), which also works great.
Not an endorsement, just a happy user.