Our modern lights, screens and appliances all use less energy than 30 years ago.
Regardless, you also probably aren't accounting for the well known https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jevons_paradox that means you can't expect to reduce energy use through efficiency gains. Energy is too important to raising quality of life, people invariably find uses for it unless the cost goes.
2021 reversed this trend. Guess why?
I think you may be surprised here.