FYI I use revenced as well, it's just your argument doesn't sound very sane.
But I think you've highlighted exactly why net neutrality is terrible in practice (people effectively stealing bandwidth by blocking ads).
It's like saying stealing from stores is okay because paying taxes for the upkeep of roads is equivalent to paying for the stores.
The obvious parallel is Sony Corp. of America v. Universal City Studios which established that time shifting - recording a TV broadcast to play back later - is fair use.
Someone using a DVR with a "+30 seconds" button to skip an ad was not stealing from the broadcast company.
Vimeo hasn’t tried being a direct YouTube competitor in years — just look and use their site at any point after 2014? 2016? It’s been a while.
While I’d like to see PeerTube succeed, it is hardly a competitor. The content is very… early.