For the scenario you’ve outlined, have you thought about splitting the 3 patches into separate, dependent pull requests? While GitHub doesn’t natively support this, the right code review tool (shameless plug - I’m part of a team building one called GitContext) should allow you to keep pull requests small while maintaining dependencies between them. For example, patch 3 can depend on patch 2, which in turn depends on patch 1. The dependency tracking between them - provided by the code review tool - can ensure everything is released in unison if that's required.
Each patch can then be reviewed on its own, making feedback more targeted and easier to respond to. You can even squash commits within a pull request, ensuring a clean commit history with messages that accurately reflect the individual changes. Better still, with the right tool, you can use AI to summarize your pull request and review, streamlining the creation of accurate commit messages without all the manual effort.
A good code review tool also won’t get bogged down by git operations like rebases, merges, or force pushes. Reviewers should always see only the changes since their last review, no matter how many crazy git operations happen behind the scenes. That way, you avoid having to re-review large diffs and can focus on what’s new. The review history stays clean, separate from the commit history.
I'd be curious if this approach to splitting up pull requests and tracking their inter-dependencies would address your needs?