I'm curious to hear more about those problems. Do you have any articles covering them in more depth?
In short though, frameworks like SwiftUI tend to be designed around a very narrow set of use cases and if yours deviates from those in any way you're in for a bad time, and depending on how great the deviation is will likely land you with falling back to older imperative frameworks for their more customizable/hackable widgets in places (if that's an option) or dropping the declarative framework altogether.