It is a bit easier if you photograph them in the morning, when they are still cold and sluggish. You can get a similar effect by putting them in a container in the fridge for a few minutes. But don't leave them in too long! And warn your partner...
https://www.inaturalist.org/observations/sohkamyung
And here's a Singapore Biodiversity Report that included photos from me (Figs 10-12) [PDF]
https://lkcnhm.nus.edu.sg/wp-content/uploads/sites/10/2023/0...