In one of the Chinese-language posts, the author says the police found calcium in the water at 9x the max drinking water concentrations (960 mg/l), and posts water test results and receipts for calcium. According to the author, they were drinking 6 l of water per day to try to fix their hypercalcemia, so they were consuming 5760 mg of calcium per day. The recommended dose of calcium is 1000 to 1200 mg per day and the tolerable upper intake is 2500 mg per day, so the author was consuming more than double the maximum tolerable upper intake. When calcium is taken in excess it causes hypercalcimia.
Also, calcium has a metallic taste, which is what the author was complaining of. So it all checks out, if one assumes the wife lied about the potassium and it was actually calcium.
(Also, the video allows us to pretty much rule out that the author is poisoning themself.)