> I understand the technical issue but on a broader sense, the instant that a vendor supplied black box is installed behind your firewall and allowed to make any sort of communication towards a vendor controlled endpoint, doesn't it immediately technically allows full remote control?
In the sense of "isn't it now possible on technical level?", yes.
On a legal level? You're breaking into their network. At least in the US, but almost certainly in many other jurisdictions), there's a very non-zero chance you're engaged in illegal activity. https://www.justice.gov/jm/jm-9-48000-computer-fraud
On a PR level? Definitely not. The customer will be furious when they find out, and everyone who knows about it will tell everyone they know what you did, post about it on reddit/twitter/linkedin, not to mention discords and slacks. Even the helpdesk guys are gonna be telling their buddies over beers "you wouldn't believe what our netsec team caught our appliance from DumbassCo doing..."
That doesn't even get into the liabilities involved if the client has to meet security requirements from the government (as a contractor), PCI compliance, HIPPA compliance, SEC rules, etc. Imagine a client who needs compliance as a core part of their business because of your network appliance...
And then there's the liability if the remote access capability turns out to be a security vulnerability that can be exploited by outside parties, is abused by an employee, or hackers break into your company and jump off from there to your clients.
There is nothing difficult about respecting "no, you may not have remote access to our network or this system" with no reason or justification provided. They don't need to justify or explain it to you. It's their network. Change the support contract terms if necessary, but don't do anything the author idiotically suggests.
I see people claiming that "it should be assumed the vendor can access your network" - legally speaking, no, it sure shouldn't. That's like saying "if you buy a laptop with a camera and microphone you should assume the laptop manufacturer can spy on you."
If you work at a company that does this sort of nonsense, now would be an excellent time to deactivate any "hack our way into customer-owned equipment or networks" functionality and urgently schedule a meeting with some lawyers.