When renewal time came, I received two emails: one to me, and one redirected from my wife's email address. Mine said (names changed for reasons of privacy):
"Dear Herodotus, We hope this email finds you and your family well. It is time to renew your membership...."
The second one said this:
"Dear Jane (Deceased), We hope this email finds you and your family well....."
Not all experiences were this bad, but I did get the feeling that most people building client databases do not give much thought to the one use case that is guaranteed for every entry in the client database: Death.