I've read a lot of stackoverflow, did a lot of arcane css, learned a bunch of display:table obscurities, and still every option broke somewhere, UI wise. Presumably, some magic combination of css incantations should work.
But I can't spend 2+ hours on a table, and even if it seems to work, I can't guarantee it will continue to work or break subtly on some edge case. And this is very basic stuff, UI wise. I've setled for div/class soup, gridlayout, and a few aria selectors.