For me there’s only one thing that matters - you’re all working together to put good code into the system.

If you work in an environment where people lord code review over you in any way then you’re on a hiding to nowhere. That applies equally if you expect reviewers to not, you know, review your code.

I see this discussion of “nitpicks” constantly. If it’s a tiny thing that brings the code in line with the existing codebase then just do it rather than fighting it. If there’s some ambiguity then find a rule as a team and apply it.

I have no idea how people work in environments where you’re not all working together.