I’m looking to emulate the mating strategy of a preying mantis.

Please just eat me after we’re done doing the dirty.

I imagine it would be spontaneous interaction in places of interest or leisure.

Not everything needs to be optimised.

"polar bear stuck on an iceberg" mating strategy

OP wrote "dating" but you replied with "mating." Why?

Why have one to begin with?

Women are optimizing 80% of men out of the gene pool.

What the men do is irrelevant.