Maybe China goes too far in the direction of state control, but it's possible to go too far in the opposite direction too. IMO the EU has a better balance in this regard.
The primary end game is thus
- staying in power at all costs, economics matter little
- elimination of political alternatives, most notably Taiwan as ethnic Chinese with a democracy and great success
All else is secondary. Authoritarian regimes are always willing to harm their people and country for their own benefit.
Democracies are not perfect, often messier, but they can course correct and have meaningful checks and balances.
The Chinese model is: OK we are going to keep calling ourselves the communist party, but we are going to grab every elites, and THEN we will have "inter-party democracy". How do you recognize an elite? It's easy: either you have a lot of money, or you are accepted into the top universities, or you have influence among the locals. Ordinary people don't even bother with voting (it's still there) because they accept the fact that general election is just a facade, and the party is going to assimilate most of the elites into it anyway -- you can't do much if you are not in. But inter-party democracy DOES exist and is a thing, and goes to the top level election, when the central committee votes for the Politburo members.
So basically, the core idea is:
- Do you assimilate capable people into the elites?
- Do you have relatively peaceful competitions among different elite interest groups?
- If there are systemic issues do you correct it in a relatively peaceful way?
Both US and China check for all of them.
And that's it. Ordinary people like you and me are not part of the elites so we are just resources, human resources.
Worse, the people are getting to the point where rapid growth isn't enough. It was what they wanted when China was a poor country. Now that they aren't in poverty any more, growth is nice, but they want other things more. As you say, they want choice and a say in how they are governed. (What they really wanted was a better life, not growth for growth's sake. Growth was just the form that a better life looked like when they were poor. Now it's not.)
I also see a parallel between China and Russia here. Russia attacked Ukraine because Putin couldn't tolerate a prosperous, democratic, ethnically similar neighbor - it might give his own people ideas. China's in the same boat, except that they have the Taiwan Strait to deal with, and the US at least appears to be willing to back Taiwan more forcefully than it backed Ukraine.
I've also been in multiple small groups where this power dynamic is not a thing.
people put pressure on others to make decisions all the time, especially in politics, that is the essence of politics
Many are saying similar things about the other candidate that remains.
It's just correctly identify that it's retarded to pour so much money in service platforms with diminishing returns, i.e. DiDi is already stupid efficient in most areas, what's the point of spending billions to shave average delivery by a few more seconds when it's just going to shit up traffic more. It's realizing spending 300B on importing semi conductors and billions more on other imports / paying patent fees to western countries that are no longer reliable is dumb.
IMO at this point, if you see western articles saying XJP is doing XYZ bad things, he's probably doing right thing, things that west is about to do (industrial policy, increase speech controls, regulation/antitrust in big tech), or things they wish they can do.