I found this explanation:
https://www.quora.com/Is-it-possible-to-detect-if-a-particle...
In my opinion, it's not the entanglement that is interesting or confusing, it's the super positions of both particles before they are measured that is hard to explain... How can two particles be in super positions of two states but then when you measure them they are always complimentary? Either it was "spooky action at a distance" ie (particle A communicated it's measurement result to particle B) or there is "hidden variables" inside the super positions that determines the result of the measurements.
You give too little information for this to be understandable.
Not sure if a HN comment is a right to go back to the fundamentals here either, but I'll try again: reading the quantum information means to "measure it". Measurement alters the state of the system. If someone then "measures" it (i.e. "reads", i.e "eavesdrops"), the communicating parties will find out.